If you’ve left the SDA church and moved a few times, you’ll notice that the constant stream of Adventist magazines keep following you. This is because you never dropped your membership. They followed me through three address changes over almost two years, this even included “The Quiet Hour” addressed to “Pastor Dustin Williams.”
It’s pretty simple to do. Think back to what congregation holds your membership, this would be the church you were baptized in or the one where you most recently transfered your membership to. Which conference or union sends you their publications could help in narrowing it down. If you can find an email address for the pastor, secretary, or clerk you can do it via email, otherwise it’ll cost you a postage stamp. You can say something as simple as the letter I sent:
Dustin Williams [email protected]>
to [email protected]
date Sat, May 23, 2009 at 1:31 PM
subject Removal of Membership
mailed-by gmail.com
I would like to hereby resign my membership with the Seventh-day
Adventist Church and formally request that church publications stop
being sent to me.
Sincerely,
Dustin Williams[email protected]>
The message will be forwarded to the church clerk, they’ll stop the publications, then at the next business meeting they will vote to honor your request. After that you should get a letter in the mail from the pastor telling you that you are no longer a Seventh-day Adventist. I still have the letter, honestly I’m tempted to frame it.
If they resist, then you can always list off your grievous sins, which according to the church manual they are required to remove your membership for. Among the most popular are apostasy, sabbath breaking, drinking, smoking, promiscuity, etc. If you haven’t gotten past the apostasy, then you’re missing out. However, there’s no point in giving an old woman a heart attack, so you should just leave it to the fact that you have apostatized.
If the membership you need to drop is LDS, I’ve heard you need to talk to the local bishop. Catholics have stopped honoring requests for defection, so you would probably have to burn an effigy of the pope made out of “host” and post a video on YouTube, this might get their attention and prompt an excommunication. Other denominations vary as to whether membership is local or centralized and who would need to process the request. If you have any doubt, I’m sure the local administrative office (diocese/conference/etc) could probably route your letter to the correct place.
The worst you would have to face would be a short meeting with a pastor, elder, or deacon. If this is the case, make sure you maintain control of the conversation and be firm. If you show weakness, they will pounce. Fortunately most denominations wont put you through this.
If you haven’t done this yet, please do. The longer you’re on the books, the longer they can count your for statistics and lobbying. Don’t give them the benefit of being able to use you to inflate their numbers.
Good luck!
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